Why the Side Piece Gotta Go
February 26, 2010 by Mufasa
Filed under Side Dishes
It was love at first site, lightening struck twice, I slipped up, had to have it – whatever excuse is convenient enough to rationalize the behavior, let’s just say that’s what happened. The dynamics were on target, which led to exciting, out-of-this-world experiences. This lasted for months. OK, a coupla of years. But lately, my [...]
Relationships for Lease
February 25, 2010 by Elle Ashley
Filed under Single Ladies
So during my relaxation on Saturday I turned on Real Housewives of Orange County, my guilty pleasure. In one scene Gretchen, a housewife who last season was a newer version of Anna Nicole Smith said something that stood out amidst the silicon. Her decree was this: people should be able to lease each other in [...]
Is this Date Intended for a One Night Stand?
February 24, 2010 by Bonie Lovely
Filed under Single Ladies
Put on your Red dress and your high heels and some of your sweet perfume it sure smells good on you slide on your lipstick let your hair down cause baby when you get through I’m going to show you tonight will be a special night no matter where we go and I’m so proud [...]
Get What You Want Without Having Sex… Part 3
February 23, 2010 by Jo
Filed under Side Dishes
Present yourself to your spouse as one with no worries. Tip #3 Present yourself to your partner as a Natural Childhood is the golden paradise we are always consciously or unconsciously trying to recreate. The Natural embodies the longed- for qualities of childhood- spontaneity, sincerity, unpretentiousness. In the presence of Naturals we feel at ease, [...]
Mailbag question – Did I Really Cheat at the Spa?
February 22, 2010 by Mr. Jones
Filed under Coming Together
My wife has lupus. Our sex life is nil. Between porn and magazines, I can’t take it anymore. She treated me to a spa weekend a few weeks back. On the morning before I left, I met a woman and things went to the next level. It wasn’t the sex that was fantastic; it was [...]
Same Sex Marriage to Control American Commerce
February 19, 2010 by Mufasa
Filed under Coming Together
A question regarding same-sex marriages. While I’m certain that it’ll become a reality nation-wide within the next 5-7 years, I have a concern that some people may have never considered. Crazy as it sounds initially, it might be worth serious consideration. Here’s an example that’s never likely to happen; Let’s say two men, Steve Jobs [...]
Before you Move to the Next Chapter, Ask Yourself “Am I Being Manipulated?”
February 18, 2010 by Jo
Filed under Coming Together
Most relationships are crash & burn because in the beginning there is a great deal of manipulation that occurs. Recall the love interest that was “Too good to be true.” They cooked, cleaned, matched your sex drive, always kept up their appearance, showed you off to the world, taught you stuff and did whatever it [...]
Are those Faithful the Last of a Dying Breed?
February 16, 2010 by Elle Ashley
Filed under Coming Together
The older I get, the more I wonder if anyone is truly faithful. I would be amiss if I stated with a straight face that no one is faithful in a relationship. I have seen this level of commitment, but I am beginning to see more of the latter. The Unfaithful I can believe that [...]
Different Levels of Sex Partners
A female friend of mine is quite bitter lately. She was on this rant about men ain’t nothing and asked me, “How is it that she is a good woman and it is so hard for her to find a good mate?” Most of the time, women male bash, I tend to tune them out [...]
Lack of Prospects, Single & Confused Part 2
February 15, 2010 by Dean
Filed under Single Ladies
After my conversation with Sincere, I happened to talk with another woman, Victoria, about her struggles with relationships and the lack of prospects out there for women like herself. Victoria , like Sincere, is a 28 year-old , single, African –American female with a successful career, but their approaches to relationships are seemingly different with [...]
